Whenever I get time for myself, I find myself talking to myself like I am talking to Someone and that person is listening and replying. It is abit weird but it is kind of useful to me. I know well enough that I am not perfect but well, no one is. “Our mistakes are what make us human” my friend once told me, at a time I really hated myself. At someone time I felt like I didn’t deserve the love and care I was receiving well, at times, we all feel that way, that’s why we all need a shoulder to lean on, one to cry on at least.

Yes, no one is perfect, we all make mistakes and just that is what makes us human. Well, today, I want to talk to you who is reading this; firstly, thank you for reading and giving me time to speak to your soul ❤️❤️

So, I just want to say something about a memory.

How you can make your memories useful. Not just to take up all the space in your mind. Firstly, what is a memory?? It is a faculty by which the mind stores and remembers information. Yes, the mind stores this information, and remembers it. You are able to remember it but when you remember it , will it help you push you to what you want to be? Is it of any use to you?

As we look on our lives and see what we have been through is that of any use to us?

Well,. Different things happen to us in life such as to prepare us for the future but they only sharpen you if you tend to look back on them and understand them. This is because experience is the best teacher. So sometimes, you just need to look back on what you have been through to go through your current situation. At times,you need to say to yourself,” if I managed to get through this, then I can get through this too”

Whether good memories or bad ones, they are all memories. That are all supposed to sharpen into our better selves. Memories are what should help us, most times not to give up, to find our purposes in life.

Well, I just didn’t have much to say about it. It is just something that has helped me out so much apparently through most of my problems. I thought maybe I would share with you about it. Because sometimes, even in your darkest time , you can remember the moments you shared with someone you really loved and that will bring back a smile on your face.

Sometimes in life, you will feel like no one understands you and maybe everything seems to be falling apart in your life. How about you try sitting yourself down. Yes, sit yourself down, and talk to yourself, one on one. As your self questions about your life and see if you are able to answer them. Relate your current situation to your previous ones. Compare what you have been through to what you are passing through. You are your greatest friend and your greatest enemy. Like I have always said you are the owner of your life.

Life is, because love is. There is no life without love . That’s why man has to have friends. Yeah, you have to be aware of your true friends but in life anyone who comes into your life teaches you something. Stop concentrating on only the bad things a person has done but see the good things too. You need to learn to sit back and observe. Learn from the bad things and appreciate the good things instead of complaining. There is a purpose for every single person you meet, some will use you, some will bring out the best of you. Some will try to bring you down while others will give you a shoulder to lean on. But most of all , they will help you discover the real you

We are living in a world where we are living to learn , we keep learning each now and then . Whether a toddler or a teenager we all need to learn. Learn from life itself . Learn from the people we meet and from the people we lose as well. One problem is , when someone speaks about learning from someone or something they only want to learn from the good part and think the bad part is not necessary but it is too. You should learn from both the good and bad part of something. Learn to avoid the bad part of it and use the good one to make you a better person.

Well, that’s my opinion on life , that is how I have tried to understand my life. I just try to share the positive vibe. Please if you have something you think is disturbing you in your life please drop it in the comments.

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To God be the glory 🙏