Hi there, back to you with another… Can I call it episode… Maybe,.. so am here with another episode of life itself, buh just today we are going to talk about something new. Something that I hope will help you understand what to do and why you should do it. That I hope will enable you to make the right decisions. Decisions that you won’t regret. You, must be tired already from seeing “something” every after a full stop. Well, am just talking about management. Management of your own life. Being able to balance different things in life. You need to claim your life and control it. Because, literally, it is your life. “Your life”

At times, certain things may come into your life and sometimes you think they are distracting you from somethings, or maybe you think  stoping you from doing something else, so you decide on deleting them from your, well,  that’s just not it. That’s actually partly wrong , because, that is you trying to avoid things in life. It is you refusing certain changes in life. Change is a fact of life. Therefore, you need to adjust with change in life. You need to stand up and take charge of your life. That’s why am calling this, ‘management’ , you need to learn to manage your life , learn to balance  different things in your life. That’s when you will see “the You” , you always wanted to see. “The You” , you always dreamt of.

How about when I talk of balancing , what do I exactly mean? It may seem hard to understand. I mean, you may ask yourself what I maybe referring to. I willaake it easier for you and maybe give you a few examples

So, my best friend was in a relationship with someone sometime back, and for some reason, she really liked this guy. Well, it was kind of her first time ever falling in love with someone. Yes, at some point, I adored these two but after a short while, they broke up. Literally, this guy broke up with her. So, for some reason, I felt so sorry for her, and I was kind of furious with this guy. Only because he had just hurt my best friend’s feelings. So I went on to ask him what was really his reason for breaking up with her and he only said that he was planning on doing something and he was spending more time on the relationship than on what he wanted to do.

Understandable, right? Yes, anyone would do this, but honestly it wouldn’t be the best thing to do. What I mean is this. What this young man forgot was that he had to man up and take charge of what was happening in his life and that life is always about balancing. You have to balance one thing with another. Balance your time. In life, for instance, for a man, he will have to balance his business, family, money, literally everything. If he doesn’t, he may end up losing it all. You won’t abandon your wife and children because you want to launch a new business and because you think they are slowing you down, and for that matter you think that the best thing to do is to push them away. That is nonsense! You need to take full responsibility as a man . Not only for men, the same applies to everyone, women , teenagers, you need to balance everything, that’s taking charge. That’s taking responsibility. You don’t have to run away from change

That is what life is about. You need to be strong , determined and responsible. Yes , it’s so difficult to. But life isn’t any easy itself.

You need to know that things may not come one by one Everytime. Sometimes, two or more things may come up at the same time and you, for one, may need that balancing.

As you learn all this, you will have to believe in yourself too, you know.  You will have to believe that you can do it. It’s pretty hard for people to believe you when you don’t believe in yourself either. You need to say to yourself “Let me give this a go, ” because life itself ain’t all goodie goodie we just have to be strong and smile through it all.

You just need to be your own life’s administrator. That’s what you should try out. Look at life in a different perspective. Just this once. Stand up for your life. Yes, at some point, I might feel like you pretty much hate your life but maybe someone out there is using it as a guide through their life.

That is life . Oh maybe just a twinkle of it.✨

Am the master of my life




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